Saturday, 29 March 2014

why friendships are important

We all give lot of importance to friends..to the very idea of friendship.By that I don't mean to say that you need to always do something extraordinary for someone or be perfect in every way possible,to be someone's friend.
Friendship is nothing but an extension of yourself...your friends reflect what you are,what you stand for,what you believe in.
Just like how our parents and siblings mean the world to us,so do our friends.Its not a revelation that m sharing.But just a simple fact..that sometimes we all tend to take for granted.

Every occasion that comes along in our lives,opens the door for all kinds of friends to walk in and be a part of it in some special way.
There are those whose mere presence is simply comforting.An tiny effort that they make for you,stays with you for years to come.Even though you may not talk everyday,may not share your life stories,but the fact that they somehow manage to be a part of your life.. is enough.

Then come the close buddies,with whom you have and you still share the tiniest of things!Without them life would seem just so boring and incomplete!You need them to make fun of you,to tell you how stupid u are,irritate the life out you...yet,be ready to kick anyone's ass for you!Its like they have the supreme right to poke  fun at you and dispel your secrets to the world.But,at the same time,no one else can even dare to think of the same!

Some friends are like those resting chairs..you just come back to them after a hard day...and you know that no one else can provide you the warmth,comfort and humor that they can.You don't have to say a lot to them..they just know what you're going through..and what exactly you need to pep u up :)

having friends is like having your own small family..a family that you build all throughout your life.A family that will keep growing and changing ,to meet your different needs at various stages in life.
Some friendships stay for life..some for a while..but we need these people..these nutcases whom we call friends...
with so many thoughts,feelings and emotions that we keep experiencing at different times in our lives,it makes perfect sense to have a bundle of friends...each to make u happy and put a smile to ur face :)

damini grover